I am a Jew and I'm proud to say it.
As a Jew, we find it hard, especially in the past, to find our mate. But so does everybody else. Looking for your perfect mate is one of the greatest challenges in life. And without these challenges, our existence would not be worthwhile.
As for searching for the perfect mate, not only Jews, but everyone has felt one way or another that finding the right person to share your life with is daunting. Dating therefore seems to become a task rather than an enjoyable experience when taken into this context. It used to give me migraines just thinking about the next date and the next person I thought I had similarities with.
I was finally able to breathe a little better when I found out about online dating. Yes, online dating.
I know that we often have misconceptions about dating online or finding your mate in the Internet. But do you know that that's where I finally found my perfect match?
After many heartaches and meeting people with characteristics that I find intolerable, I finally found someone.
My wife and I were able to meet because of a Jewish-dating site. And after the first one, we're dating exclusively until the day that we finally tied the knot. And with pure luck, my wife was just living in the next town where I live. If it weren't for that dating site I would not be able to find my mate.
I found online dating more acceptable because after looking for my match by trial-and-error, it was easier for me because I was able to know ahead of time that the people I'm going to meet are also Jewish like me. We have the same beliefs and respect for God and other people. Our values mirror those of each other's values.
Even my workplace did not give me much assistance like what I was able to get from the dating site. I was even able to fine-tune my search to specific age group, single or divorced, race, location and even the jobs and careers. And the best part is I already know I'm talking to a Jew because I was able to find that person in a Jewish Dating site.
My wife and I had a wonderful time dating. So could you if you will be able to know beforehand what you're getting into.
Try dating online now. Meeting your mate may just be the most wonderful experience in your whole lifetime.
Some tips for good Jewish dating
A good dating experience is cherished for life. It is the best way to get to know each other. Very often it turns out to be the beginning of a long and lasting relationship.
Good Jewish dating is a broad term. It includes Jewish Christian dating, orthodox Jewish dating and gay Jewish singles dating. However, the basic concept remains the same. It is a meeting of two like-minded persons looking for an intimate relationship.
Our site helps match your profile with other Jews in an effort to promote sanctified relationships.
Find like-minded Jews
It is difficult to find a Jew who is interested in dating at a place like a discotheque or a pub. To find a person who shares your values and your outlook on life you can rely on the Internet. Jewish Dating websites ensure speed, affordability and privacy.
Know your Purpose
It is important to be clear in your objectives. To avoid misunderstanding later, it is always better to have a clear idea of what kind of a relationship you are seeking. Do you want a short-term relationship? Are you looking for a long-term relationship? You ought to have a clear picture of what you want in order to save heartburns later.
Be confident and believe in yourself
Present yourself as a confident and positive Jew. Pay attention to your sitting posture. You may put off your date with your slouching and your fidgeting. How you sit, how you walk and carry yourself leave a lasting impression on the person who is meeting you for the first time. Good Jewish dating requires that you believe in yourself and let that be seen through your body language.
Have fun
Don't be a bore!! Try to have fun. Avoid talking on subjects that interest you only. A topic that is important to you may not be of any interest to the other. Be sensitive to the other person's choice. Welcome free flow of ideas and thoughts. A dialogue rather than a monologue is a much better way to go about.
Don't Linger
If you feel the meeting is running out of words, it is better to wind it up. Don't drag on unnecessarily.
Good Jewish dating requires that you be a perfect gentleman. If you want your lady to be with you the next time, never let her pay.
Last but not the least, show some class!! Tip well!!